one year ago (tomorrow) we were celebrating, with lots of people we love, the promise we made to each other in marriage. wish we could do that all over again, minus the amount of money & time it took to make it happen, plus actually trying the food we finally decided on ;o) it was a really good day, 09.30.11 was.
but in all sincerity, it's been perhaps the most refining year so far. and in the best/hard way possible. marriage has not been just a combining of our individual lives into one apartment, but rather a true synthesis of our selves into an evermore (we hope!) coherent whole. things are slightly easier, more fun than they were those first few months of partially jarring transition. but things also seem more profound; our conversations, our decisions, all those things reach deeper. as if the implications for who we are together & more importantly, who we are becoming, are greater than we've ever known they could be. what's ahead begins now or already has, and i am just looking forward to the ride!
i love you my darling.
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